What about My Other Children When I Am Grieving for My Lost Child?

What about My Other Children When I Am Grieving for My Lost Child?

It is very, very important for parents to say to each of their surviving children, “You are not (the name of the child who died), you are (the name of the child you are speaking to).” In our wisdom as parents, we said to our son Vincent, “You are not Reed, you are...
Does Grief’s Grip Have to Last Forever?

Does Grief’s Grip Have to Last Forever?

When you are overcome by grief, it feels like you are adrift on an iceberg that is breaking up in a dance fog. This can lead to feelings of fatigue, devastation, confusion, chaos, despair, shame, anger, guilt, fear of eternal separation and hopelessness. It feels like...