What to Say to a Grieving Person

The topic of how to greet a grieving person came up again this week. My client said, “I wish people would stop asking, ‘How are you?’” I wish they would too. The role of the grief-adjacent You, as someone in the role of the grief-adjacent, are called to activate...

Imagine Feeling Confident in Always Saying the Right Thing

Dear Community,   My heart is full. You said the right things.   My sincere thanks to each of you who opened, read and then replied to last week’s blog, “He DID Die on My Watch”.   If you missed it, it was the raw experiential truth of holding my...

“They Will be Good Days”

Senator John McCain’s Passing Gives Us Pause My Beloved Community,   Another “great” one recently passed.   I was deeply touched when I read this tribute from Meghan McCain at the passing of her father, John McCain:   My father, United Sates...

What is the Best Way You Can Support Someone Who is Grieving?

What IS the Best Way You Can Support Someone Who Is Grieving?                                                                                                                                                                                                            The...
It’s OK to Feel OK – Enjoy the Moment of Freedom

It’s OK to Feel OK – Enjoy the Moment of Freedom

It’s OK Do you feel like you’ll never be the same again? You are right. You won’t be. Ever. I am not the same woman I was on the morning of January 24, 1998. That night my life changed forever. None of us are after a trauma, or a great loss. The human condition...