Use a bookend approach.
Start your card by acknowledging the truth of their situation.Dear______,
As this “First Christmas” arrives without the earthly presence of _______. There will be moments of tears and hopefully joy. May you find moments filled with love and cherished memories.
Next, let them know you’re including your family newsletter because they’re a part of your community.I’ve enclosed our “family newsletter” because you’re a dear friend who’s part of my circle. I’m holding you in my heart as I send this letter to share our family trials and triumphs of the year.
Finally, close with a blessing.May your ______ holiday be filled with Love. I’m deeply grateful that you’re in our lives. Sending Peace and Blessings as you surf the waves of grief this Christmas and in the year to come.
In Summary
By first acknowledging the truth of the situation, then sharing the triumphs and tragedies of the year, and finally closing with a blessing the message is book-ended by love. Most importantly, listen to your heart. If you feel your family news would cause too much pain, leave it out. But do send a card letting your friend know you care. Love all around, above, below, to the left and to the right, before you and behind you, GeorgenaIf you’re struggling with the emotional process of grief...
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