3 Simple Connections with Grieving Parents

#1 Decide to Show UP for 5 Minutes Grieving parents feel alone. Abandoned by friends who don’t know what to say or fear saying the wrong thing, they are excluded. Make the decision to show up by remembering when you felt most alone. What was happening in your...

Your Gentleness Quotient as a Grieving Parent

What are You Telling Yourself About your Grief? As a grieving parent of six months, six years, three years, ten years, what are you telling yourself about this pain? Are you judging yourself because you aren’t “Farther along?” Has judging your...

Broken Heart Syndrome

I am happy to say that two people were very offended by the simplicity, narrowness of Grief or Non-Judgment. The reason I feel happy is that 46% of you took the time to open this and 26% of you responded on Facebook. We are ENGAGING as a community. Thirty-three...

Peace on Earth Good Will to All

The Dali Lama says,  “There will be peace on earth when there is peace in our hearts.” How can there be peace in our hearts when we are grieving? Grief hurts. We feel disconnected from the person who died, the one who will not be traveling back to sit at our table...
Will You Ostrich Your Way through the Holidays?

Will You Ostrich Your Way through the Holidays?

Halloween, Day of the Dead, Veteran’s Day, Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, Christmas Kwanzaa and New Year’s are officially on many U.S. calendars. Did I miss any on yours? I imagine some of you have Black Friday in bold as well, even though I hear several stores will not open...