What’s holding you in Fragile Grief?

My Dear Community, Recently, during a grief recovery workshop, I asked the audience, “How many of you have had someone say, ‘Just let go of your grief.’?” One-third of the group raised their hands. Well, easier said than done. Right? If only those who say that to a...
12 More Truths of Grieving

12 More Truths of Grieving

My Dear Community, After years of grief, I wish I had known these twelve truths of grieving. Having someone guide me through grief’s journey may have shortened the healing process. To find the happiness waiting Beyond my Loss. Twelve Truths of Grieving Grief is a...

How to Stay Grounded While Helping Others in Pain

My Dear Community, We’re surrounded by people feeling deep pain, trapped in a pit of hopelessness. They may even be contemplating suicide. How can we stay grounded while helping others get out of despair? Many of you are empathic people like me. When we walk into a...
A Powerful Prayer for Shifting Grief

A Powerful Prayer for Shifting Grief

My Dear Community, I received an email from a congregation member asking for prayer for her cousin. Her cousin’s husband had died after an illness of several months. Today, I’m sharing the prayer that I sent for this grieving Christian widow. Rubenfeld Synergy and...

Freedom to Forgive with the Ultimate Forgiveness Mantra

  Raw Grief At first, when trauma first strikes, grief covers the tapestry of your life. Every waking thought is about the divorce, diagnosis, beloved dream, pet or person you’ve lost. It’s all-consuming. Fragile Grief Then, after the initial trauma, you can get...